Planning a wedding? Or should we say... running a one-woman event production company with laminated timelines, backup earrings, and a mood board for your mood board? If that sounds a little too familiar, congrats — you might be a Type A bride. And honestly? We love that for you.

Signs You’re a Type A Bride — and the Bridal Party Kinda Knew It Already

This list is packed with (very relatable) signs you’re deep in the Type A bridal trenches, from scheduling snack breaks to color-coding your RSVP list. If you’ve already sent your DJ a Google Doc (with bullet points), keep reading — this one’s for you.

1) You Had Your Wedding Website Live Before You Announced Your Engagement

Other brides: "We'll make a site eventually!"
You: "Here’s the link. Here’s the password. Here’s a QR code. I also drafted your transportation plan and meal selection form."
Efficiency? 10/10. Icon behavior.

2) You Made a PowerPoint For Your Bridesmaids Outlining Their Dress options

We’re talking a full-on Canva presentation. Slide 1 covered the wedding color palette with hex codes. Slide 2 outlined acceptable fabric choices (with swatches, of course). and Slide 3? A deep dive into the emotional aesthetic of the wedding day. There may or may not have been a Q&A session at the end.

3) You Picked A Venue.. Before the Proposal Even Happened

Some people wait until there’s a ring. You had a shortlist of venues, and maybe even a soft hold on a Saturday next fall — all before your partner got down on one knee. It wasn’t desperation, it was simply foresight. You understood that the real commitment is a signed contract with a non-refundable deposit.

4) You Tested Different Pens for Your Guest Book

You weren’t about to let your guest book be defaced by a streaky gel pen or a rogue felt-tip. So you did the work: Sharpie fine point? Too thick. Ballpoint? Meh flow. Pilot G2? Chef’s kiss.

5) You Made a Vendor Cheat Sheet (With Photos of Key People)

You weren’t about to leave anything to chance. (Especially when it came to Grandma getting her shrimp cocktail.) So, you created a full vendor cheat sheet complete with names, titles, seating assignments, and photos of key guests. The caterer knew who the groom’s grandma was. The DJ knew who to hand the mic to. And yes, it was laminated.

6) You Created a Visual Guide for How You Want Your Napkins Folded

You could’ve just told the planner what you wanted. But no, you showed. Complete with a reference photo, side-by-side examples, and a diagram labeled “Tri-Fold with Loose Corner Tuck.” Because it’s not just a napkin. It’s part of the tablescape story.

7) You Reprinted Your Seating Chart Because the First One Had “Weird Spacing”

To 99% of people, it looked perfect. But to you? One name was a smidge too close to the table number and it made the whole thing feel off. So, you reprinted the entire chart. No one noticed. No one would’ve noticed. But you did. And that was enough to warrant a re-do.

8) You Made an A List, a B List, and a “C List but Only If Someone Ghosts” List

You didn’t just create a guest list — you built a system. The A list got invites first. The B list is on standby. And the C list? It’s there just in case someone’s cousin decides not to fly in. You know who’s on what tier. You’ve ranked them.

9) You Laminated the Bachelorette Itinerary… And Added A Waterproof Version For the Pool Day.

You didn’t just make an itinerary, you produced one. We're talking fonts, color coding,  and a built-in dress code for every activity. And for the pool day? You went the extra mile with a waterproof mini version that fit perfectly into a beach tote. Organization never looked so cute.

10) You Tracked RSVPs like you work in digital marketing

You didn’t just send your wedding website and hope for the best. No. You monitored who opened the RSVP email, who clicked the link, and who had the audacity to do neither. And you’ve got a spreadsheet full of follow-up reminders ready to deploy.

11)  You Built a Backup Playlist in Case the DJ’s Laptop Crashes

You weren’t about to let your first dance be ruined by a Wi-Fi issue or the DJ forgetting to show up. You made a backup playlist, downloaded it for offline play, and tucked a Bluetooth speaker into your bag… just in case.

12)  You Pre-Wrote Half Your Thank You Notes Before the Wedding

While other brides were dreaming about flowers and first looks, you were already drafting thank-you notes. You wrote them in batches, cross-referenced them with the gift tracker, and left blank spaces to fill in any details post-wedding. It’s called being overly organized, and it’s your love language.

13) You Used Actual Software to Build Your Seating Chart

You didn’t just scribble names on a notepad. You got out your iPad, launched your seating chart software, and spent six hours dragging names into perfectly balanced tables. You tried to mix personalities, align dietary needs, and avoid drama. It was kinda like playing Tetris, but with potential emotional landmines.

14) You Moved One Person and Then Had to Rearrange Seven Tables to Keep the Vibe

You thought swapping Aunt Carol and College Roommate #2 would be simple — until the entire social ecosystem of your reception collapsed. One change triggered a full seating chart rework, complete with new dynamics, fresh drama, and another three hours in your event planning app.

15) You Practiced Signing Your Marriage License (Over & Over)

You spent more time perfecting your signature than most people spend picking a venue. Because what’s the point of a flawless wedding aesthetic if your name looks like a scribble on the one legal document that actually matters? You tested pens and practiced spacing until you got it right.

16) You Had a Bachelorette Itinerary Color-Coded by Outfit

You didn’t just plan the events — you built a visual experience. Each day had a theme, each event had an aesthetic, and every outfit had a specified color. There were hyperlinks. There were mood boards. Your bridesmaids weren’t confused — they were briefed.

17) You Scheduled Hair and Makeup to the Minute (Including Snack Breaks)

Hair starts at 7:08 for bridesmaid #2. Concealer application on the MOH at 7:42. Lip touch-up buffer at 9:11. And yes, you built in a snack break window with scheduled bagel delivery. (No one is passing out on your watch.) The hair and makeup team got a copy. The bridal party got a copy. The maid of honor got a backup copy.

18) You Timelined Your “Spontaneous” Photo Moments

Those overly-romantic-at-sunset candids? Not a coincidence. You blocked out exactly 6:43PM to 6:49PM for golden hour and had the photographer prepped with a shot list. and yes, you tested the bounce of sunlight the week before.

19) You Made a Master Packing List for the Bachelorette Weekend… and Shared It in the Group Chat… Twice

You didn’t just tell your bridesmaids what to bring - you gave them a system. The packing list included daily outfit themes, weather forecasts, hotel room vibes, and an emergency checklist (yes, you included Advil and under-eye patches). You dropped it in the group chat two months out. Then again two weeks before. Just a gentle nudge.

20) You Started Your Wedding Beauty Routine 8 Months Out

The glow didn’t just happen — it was planned. Monthly facials, bi-weekly trims, skin cycling schedules, and a water-intake spreadsheet. You didn’t “hope” to look good on your wedding day. You project managed it.

21) You Interviewed Potential Wedding Vendors Like Job Candidates

You didn’t just ask for pricing and availability — you brought a list of pre-screening questions, a rubric, and follow-up questions. “How would you handle a timeline delay caused by unexpected rain?” was asked with the seriousness of a corporate boardroom. One vendor even asked you if they got the job. (Spoiler: they did not.)

22) You Gave Your Officiant a Pre-Approved Joke List

You weren’t about to let the most meaningful moment of your ceremony be followed by a “ball and chain” zinger. So you did what any organized person would do: provided a joke list. Pre-screened, pre-approved, and thoroughly on-brand. Only sweet, sentimental, lightly humorous quips allowed.

23) You Gave Your Bridesmaids a Full Day-of Timeline (and Printed Copies)

Because “just show up and vibe” was never going to cut it. You handed them a 10-page, laminated schedule complete with call times, snack breaks, touch-up slots, and arrival windows. You will not be winging anything on your big day. Bonus points if the timeline was also emailed, texted, and added to a shared calendar.

You Passed the Type A Bride Test With Flying Color-Coded Tabs

You’ve laminated your timelines, briefed your vendors, and built the most beautiful color-coded wedding plan anyone’s ever seen. And honestly? We’re obsessed. Being a Type A bride isn’t about being over-the-top. It’s about caring deeply, planning ahead, and making sure your day is exactly what you dreamed of. So go ahead and color-code your way to the altar!

Want to see what it's like in the other world of wedding planning? Here's a quick glimpse into the life of a type 'B' bride!