For some of you, you may know exactly who your bridesmaids will be with no questions asked. Others may be debating where to draw the line, or how to add more ladies to your bridal party. There are many factors to consider when it comes to choosing wedding party members other than just who your closest friends are. You may be looking to have a symmetrical wedding party, with an equal number of guys and gals or you might be trying to limit your number of ‘maids if you are planning a small wedding. Keep reading for some tips and insight!

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Choosing wedding party members: Talk with your fiancé!

The first step to choosing wedding party members is deciding on a number. This will help you stick with a plan and strategize with your hubby-to-be. If it is important to have the same number of bridesmaids and groomsmen, then you should both write down everyone you are considering and compare lists. If you hit the mark right away, congratulations! If not, read your lists to each other and decide together if there is anyone who can be a part of your day in a different way, or if there is anyone either of you may like to add.

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How to choose bridesmaids: remember that they will be by your side while wedding planning, and on your big day.

When considering who to ask to be your bridesmaids, remember it will be a financial and a time commitment for them. Be prepared for your friends to not have a lot of time to help with party planning or the extra money to buy an expensive dress. If a friend declines, remember to stay graceful.

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How to choose bridesmaids: No matter how many, they are an important part of your wedding day.

Whether you have one ‘maid or a dance floor full of your favorite ladies, these girls will be a huge part of your day. They will help you get dressed, stand with you at the altar, and be by your side as you party the night away. Choose the friends who you know in your heart will help make your day a dream come true!